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Sexual Confidence Builds Overall Confidence

Sexually confident people are generally happier and more confident in other areas of their lives. We all know the expression “That man/woman needs to get laid”,  when someone describes a person with a bad or grumpy attitude. Believe me, when I am having good sex regularly I am more relaxed and have a bounce in my step. Don’t you?

Happiness

Sex makes you happy. Why? It relieves stress and sets off a variety of hormones in your brain and body that make you happier and more relaxed. When you’re happy, you’re more willing to take on challenging or even boring and ordinary tasks more expediently and efficiently. The better you accomplish your tasks whether at work or at home, the better you’ll feel about accomplishing something. When someone notices like your boss, customers or clients, it’s a big boost for your confidence and the happiness cycle repeats.

sexual confidence = overall confidenceFearlessness

When you’re sexually confident, you’re not afraid to admit or try things that our outside of your or most peoples’ comfort zones. This same kind of fearlessness can extend into tackling new or difficult projects or situations. When you tackle and accomplish those things, it builds your confidence even more … and makes you happier.

Vulnerability

It takes a lot of bravery and courage to be vulnerable with your partner … and things like speaking in front of an audience or meeting new people.  Even if fear nags at you, deep inside you know that the real risk of being ridiculed, judged or flubbing is very low.

Attractiveness

People are attracted to confident people, not just as romantic partners but as friends, clients and colleagues, as well. When people find you attractive in a confident way, they want to be your friend and socialize with you, they have confidence that you’ll do the job you’ll say you do – and do it well. This kind of attractiveness is more than being movie star or model gorgeous, that’s great. But if you need a lot of ego propping, that gets old really fast in romantic, work and friendship relationships.

Open Mindedness

When you’re sexually confident, you’re pretty open minded about trying new things, even if you have to give them some thought. Even if something’s a “no” for you, you’re not afraid to say, “No,” and explain why, preferably with justifiable reasons or explain that your kink is not my kink and that’s okay. It can take a lot of confidence to take those kinds of stands, and you don’t have hang-ups about what others think about your point of view. That kind of confident open mindedness is a respectable trait in the workplace and working with other groups of people, too. In today’s business world, no one gets further ahead by doing things the same way they did two, 12 or 20 years ago.

Masturbation

Even if you don’t have a partner, masturbate. If you’re a sexually confident person, more than likely you already masturbate without any hang-ups or guilt or shame. Clearing your mind and body tension through masturbation is like getting a buzz from a cocktail without getting intoxicated. Masturbation lets you get on with your day with less stress and helps make you make better decisions … with confidence.