You’ve seen and noticed each other at friends social events for years. Finally you two get to know each other and you realize that it’s not just his looks you have admired, but his sophistication, intelligence and wittiness as well.
He clearly adores you too, but you both realize you cannot openly act on your feelings for one another. One of you was always committed when the other was free. With all the friends and their alliances this could be messy. Finally in a quiet corner of the party he suggests an idea that you can act on fearlessly. He books the nicest hotel room in town and you meet up for the first night of your torrid affair.
Any place is the “No Tell Motel” when you’re there with the right person!